GAMES FOR UNATTRACTED COUPLES – GAME 4: VIDEO SEX (PART 3)
Next the activist spouse asks the mate to join him or her in acting out the erotic scenes they have just observed in the movie. He or she may say, “Remember when we were kids and we used to act out scenes from the Saturday movies?” In acting out their own erotic scenes, focusing on the re-creation of the scenes from the movie that most stimulated them, they will forget for an hour the blocks that have prevented them from sexual intimacy. The sex may even be surprisingly good (stirred by the erotic video), and afterwards they may even say out loud, “I wonder why I made such a big deal out of your fat hips” or “I can’t understand how I used your hairy chest as an excuse to avoid sex for all those years.”
As usual, the sex should be followed by a frank discussion.
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