FOR SAFE OR SAFER SEX: EXPLORE “OUTERCOURSE” INSTEAD OF INTERCOURSE
Not all sexual pleasure has to derive from penetrative intercourse, although as a culture we are often programmed to think this. Outeicouise is a term used to describe sexual contact that does not include penetrative anal, oral, or genital intercourse and the exchange of body fluids. Many people have found creative ways to derive pleasure through outercourse in the era of HIV Masturbation in each other’s presence, sharing fantasies, hugging and dry kissing, the use of sex toys that are not shared, and sensual massage are all options for safer sex.
Masturbation is a safe option for sexual pleasure, whether or not a person is in a sexual relationship. Masturbation can be done either alone or with a partner, either masturbating individually in each other’s presence or masturbating each other, a practice called “mutual masturbation.” Masturbation is a normal release of sexual tension and pleasurable for both men and women. Many people masturbate, but there is still a taboo about discussing it, and a number of people still grow up thinking that it is “dirty” or immoral. In fact, masturbation allows a person to explore his or her own genital area and learn what is sexually pleasing, and it provides a safe and healthy alternative to sex with a partner if a person is not currently in a relationship. All the myths about physical harm coming to people if they masturbate are simply that: myths. They have no basis in fact.
Touching your partner’s genitals or anal area during masturbation could possibly result in STD transmission. You may want to use some method of protection, such as latex gloves for the whole hand or a finger cot for just the finger. Latex gloves can be purchased in most pharmacies, and finger cots can be purchased from stores or mail-order businesses that sell sex toys. Lubricants can be used with these devices to enhance sexual pleasure. Oil-based lubricants may cause latex products to break more easily, so be sure to use a non-oil-based lubricant with latex gloves (and with latex condoms as well).
Sensual massage is another option. Many people derive pleasure from being sensually touched in areas other than the genital area. This can be done before intercourse, as a form of foreplay, or instead of intercourse. Sensual massage allows people to explore other types of sexual pleasure that can enhance their sex lives. It is also a safe sexual practice if o body fluids are exchanged.
There are many other outer course options, limited only by are generally safe, and they can also be a lot of fun.
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